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Recommendation for Flaming
1. Let your child know that the KIDAS program reported about trash-talking in the game.
2. Explain to them that you know that video games are using “trash talks” but KIDAS is alerting the parents only about the aggressive ones which are not acceptable.
3. Talk with your child about “the line” between playful and mean trash talk. “YOU SUCK!” is an insult and doesn’t sound playful. “Is that all you’ve got?” would be a little better. Role play with your child or teen. They will think you’re silly, but that’s ok! You can laugh together while you make a strong point about your expectations.
4. Kids whose confidence is lower may use put-downs to feel better about themselves or elevate themselves. If that’s the case with your child, let them know quiet success in the game is “a better look” than acting verbally aggressive. Compliment their growing skills and tell them to focus their energy on getting even better at the game.
Recommendations written by Kidas Experts.